A Conversation On Alignment In Business

[00:00:00] Speaker A: Hello and welcome back to the consciously thriving podcast. [00:00:03] Speaker B: Hello. Excited to be back. I love how we've been consistent every single week. Like, we've not planned this. We've not planned really hard. Like, when we said that we were doing this podcast, we did not have an expectation on, like, weekly and on, like, this day, this is what we're gonna do. It's none of that. We've just allowed this thing to be completely inspired, and I love that we just naturally have, like, the inspiration and the energy to want to sit down. It doesn't feel forced. It's just like a. Yeah, like, I want to do this. [00:00:33] Speaker A: Yeah, 100%. And I think, like, something, if you're even noticing, is because, like, what something we said is, like, we'll meet up when we feel inspired and things like that. But even this week, we didn't have, like, anything, like, on the, like, we didn't have, like, a anything happen or anything to feel inspired by, but we felt inspired to just sit and talk and, like, I didn't realize it. Do you know what I mean? Like, you were waiting for inspiration to hit. And it's like, when you actually love the way you're doing it and how you're doing it, it just almost feels like anything can flow through from you in that energy. [00:01:02] Speaker B: You can't not fucking do that. [00:01:04] Speaker A: You just wanted to shut up. You're like, I'll just talk about anything. [00:01:07] Speaker B: Literally. Yeah, you're so right. It's like somebody that I've been listening to a lot, and I'm laughing at myself because every conversation I've had with, literally, you, my other friends in this space is literally just around Michael Singer. He wrote the books the surrender experiment and the untethered soul and living untethered. I've literally read all three of those books within, like, a span of, like, a week and a half. Ridiculous. But I was basically, like, listening to something that he says. And something that he says is, like, love wants to express itself. Like, when you're doing something that's so fulfilling and, like, he talks a lot about being in this now moment, but it's like, love wants to express itself. So when you're aligned and doing something that you want, it's like, love wants to express. [00:01:53] Speaker A: Love wants to be shared 100%. [00:01:55] Speaker B: I really love that. And it kind of reminds me of, like, this and this conversation alignment that we always have. [00:02:00] Speaker A: And it's like, honestly, this is, like, a really. And I've really accepted this as, like, something. I'm here where, like, and you and I are here to teach people because I just feel like if you look back at our journeys, so much of the start of our journeys has been, like, abiding by the rules and looking at, like, putting so much power to, like, strategy. And again, like, there's nuance to this conversation, so just keep that in mind. But I just feel like not doing it this way is just so painful. Like, not being in float is so painful that, like, it just wouldn't even happen. That's what I honestly feel. [00:02:39] Speaker B: Well, that's what happened. It's like when you're fighting against, like, resistance of how you actually want to do something. Because when we first started the podcast, we did do that. We set all of these rules. [00:02:48] Speaker A: We thought we had to be, like, business as well. Like, how we were showing up, like, that energy of, like, trying to figure out what to say, how to say it. How do you sell? And it's like that. [00:02:56] Speaker B: Like, how do I craft this in a way that's, like, gonna get, like, attention and likes and sales and it's fucked. [00:03:03] Speaker A: And, like, something I want to say to that is, like, there's a time and place and, like, maybe that works for some people. Like that. That's perfectly fine, but it's not gonna work for the people we're here to help. And if you're feeling resistance in not being able to go with the flow with how you want to do it and the way you want to do it, then it's an absolute sign that you're not meant to be doing it through the other way. [00:03:25] Speaker B: Yeah, it's such a. It's a deep conversation because there's so many, like, things to consider with this. Like, with basically showing up in business and doing it your way, there's, like, a line that you have to travel. Because there was a time where I was, like, in this space, and I genuinely thought that I was doing, like, I was listening to my alignment. I was like, I'm listening to my alignment. I'm showing up. I'm doing it in the way that I want to do it. But really I was listening to fear and ego. And I've seen this in, like, lots of clients that come into my space. They're like, I'm moving in alignment. I'm listening to my intuition. And then when you actually, like, get down to the root and you get into the nitty gritty, you actually see that you're not listening to your intuition. You're actually following fear. So to give you, like, a practical example, because for me, I really like enjoy, like, actually hearing experiences from people's lives. [00:04:21] Speaker A: Yeah. Like, actually showing the practical side. [00:04:23] Speaker B: Yeah. Because it's like I literally live, breathe, and eat this shit. Yeah, I, like, I remember when I was basically so afraid of selling. Selling was a big one for me. So whenever I would sell something online, and then I felt like nobody cared. Nobody was, like, giving me attention, or nobody cared about what I was selling. I literally felt this, like, sense of, like, rejection, like, this deep in a wound of being, like, you're not chosen. Nobody cares. This is failing. This is embarrassing. And those feelings were so intense, and I didn't want to see them. I didn't want to deal with them. I didn't want them activated to the point where I would, like, go social media for, like, days to a week, right? And it's like I'm showing up creating reels, but I wasn't selling. And then I'm sitting there going, why aren't I getting any, like, why isn't anyone coming into my office? And I don't think you have to, like, actively be selling, but it's like, the version of you who is that embodied entrepreneur naturally sells. Like, they want to invite people into their space. They're showing up, they're sending invitations out there. Like, they're like, come into my world. Let's play. Let's do this. [00:05:27] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:05:28] Speaker B: I was operating from a lens of, I'm putting my thing out there, like, once every couple of days. Where is it? Why isn't it here? Right? And it was, like, such an entitled way to look at it. And I thought in my head, I was like, I'm listening to the energy. So it's like, because I felt all funky showing up and selling. I was like, the energy's icky. I need to go in and, like, fix it and deal with this shit and blah, blah, blah. But to the point where I was actually, like, listening to the action of my ego self and I wasn't showing up. And, like, lo and behold, it was obviously creating a reality where, like, I wasn't seeing momentum in my business. So it's really funny, like, to see that because I see so many people stuck in that and they're like, I'm aligned. I'm following the energy, I'm doing the things. And it's like, you're actually not, though. You're actually ignoring the parts. Like, you're ignoring parts of yourself. You're ignoring shadow parts of yourself, and you're acting in alignment with, like, ego. So I feel like for me, in order to get to this place now where I'm able to be, like, I actually show up in alignment and I do things in the way that I genuinely want to do them. It's like I've had to work through so many layers of, like, fears. [00:06:30] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:06:30] Speaker B: In order to get to this point. [00:06:31] Speaker A: Yeah. And you have an embodied level of trust knowing that, like, yeah, you don't have. There's so many. So many layers to it, but there's an embodied level of, like, for us to do this podcast, we know, like, there's an element of trust that, like, if we don't force, inspiration is going to come. You know what I mean? And, like, what? Do you know what I mean? [00:06:49] Speaker B: It's because, like, we've worked through the parts of ourselves that were, like, scared to share our voice because we did that when we first started showing up on the podcast. [00:06:56] Speaker A: Needing to be perfect and. [00:06:57] Speaker B: Exactly. [00:06:57] Speaker A: Needing. Yeah, that. It's like there's so many, like, ladies conversation, like, you know, always waiting for inspiration to hear, and it's like, babe, like, if you actually, nine times out of the ten, like, I don't even like having the conversation around consistency and stuff because I'm like, if you just took away all the expectation and rules and anything like that, I guarantee you would not be having a conversation that the thoughts of, like, how many times a week do I show up? When do I show up? Wouldn't even be there. Would not even be there. Because it just. You have to experience it to go through it. But those, like, questions are just, like. [00:07:29] Speaker B: They'Re coming from ego. [00:07:30] Speaker A: Coming from ego because it doesn't actually matter. Yeah, none of that matters. But, like, when you remove all, like, any. Any resistance you have to showing up, not even. Even if you're showing up, to just show up. Like, there is just. It can't explain it. [00:07:45] Speaker B: Like, it just. [00:07:46] Speaker A: There's just, like, a flow of energy. [00:07:48] Speaker B: And just like, that actually blows my mind to think about that. That actually used to be my level of consciousness where I used to be. Like, how many times do I have to show up and blah, blah, blah. [00:07:56] Speaker A: Doesn't make sense, does it? [00:07:57] Speaker B: It doesn't make sense because when you're the embodied version of yourself, like, that, the embodied entrepreneur, those. The thoughts don't even exist. Like, I don't know. Do you feel this? Like, for me, I don't even think about selling. Like, I just naturally do it. [00:08:11] Speaker A: Hundred and 10%. [00:08:12] Speaker B: It's just like, I pick up my phone and I'm like, of course it naturally leads to that. [00:08:15] Speaker A: The leading energy is, like, I've just got these amazing things to say, and then, like, come along if you want to, like, work with me. Like, that's what it feels like. It doesn't like any rules around. Like, I don't even like the rules that, like, you're a business, so you should be selling every day. I don't like that. Yeah, but then also, like, because that just makes me feel like if I wanted to take a day or two off or if I wanted to do that, then I can't. Like, there's something wrong. [00:08:38] Speaker B: Well, that's exactly right. Like, it's like, for me, it's like I do. It's like I don't sell every day anymore. No, but it's because I transmuted that part of me that was so afraid to sell. Yeah, like, that part of me. I remember because the ego will fucking do anything to get you to listen. I'm telling you, this motherfucker is like, it knows how to get you to stop. So, for example, and I've seen this with clients as well. It's so funny. Did this happen to you? I don't know if your ego used to do this to you, but I know that this happened with some of my clients. But what would happen is it's like you basically set an intention. You're like, okay, I've realized that I've been not showing up because I've been in ego consciousness. So now I'm going to show up as the version of myself who, like, you know, is the thriving entrepreneur. Whatever it is, I'm going to show up as the embodied entrepreneur. So then you start making action to do that. You're like, okay, I'm going to set a rule for myself, and I'm going to sell every day until I get over this fear. Then what ends up happening? Your ego will avoid doing the action all day. And then it's like, at, like, 09:00 at night, you're like, I can't do it now because it's too late. So I'll do it tomorrow. Right. So it will find a way to get you out of the action. So that's the way that it does it. Or it will be like, it will use confusion to get you as well. [00:09:57] Speaker A: So it'll be like, confusion was mine. [00:09:58] Speaker B: Confusion. It'll be like, what do I say? How do I say it? [00:10:01] Speaker A: Blah, blah, blah. What do I say? How do I say it? [00:10:03] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:10:04] Speaker A: Like, putting too much power into that. Yeah, there's so many ways it does it. [00:10:08] Speaker B: Well, that's like a one option and it will be like, well, I have nothing to share, so I may as well not share anything. That's a way to get you not to do it. And then also a crazy one. I used to see this happen to a lot of people. This is the one where I'm like, did this happen to you? Is the ego will actually make you sick. Like, it. [00:10:24] Speaker A: Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Whenever. [00:10:28] Speaker B: And it's like an ego thing. I'm sweating. God. [00:10:30] Speaker A: I'm like, it's just a physical manifestation of, yeah, me. Like, so I'd be scared to, like, run something live. And I swear to God, I would always get unwell, right. Because it was a physical manifestation of, like, my body literally convulsing of, like, I don't want to do it. Like, I just, I didn't want to avoid the feelings of, like, doing a live thing or whatever. I was just scared to present that my body would literally make me unwell. [00:10:55] Speaker B: In order to get you to stop and, like, well, in order to just. [00:10:58] Speaker A: Postpone it, in order to avoid feeling that discomfort, it would be like, oh, we got another two weeks until we have to do it. And I'm alright for now. Yeah, I literally did. [00:11:06] Speaker B: I remember that. [00:11:06] Speaker A: Fucking wild. [00:11:07] Speaker B: It's happened with my clients as well. Like, I've seen it happen with people. It's so funny. Mine's never done that to the point of getting sick, but it would make me feel unaligned. So it would be like, the energy's just off today. You can't boast. So I would literally do that. And then. So this is like, what would happen. So, like, the rule I set for myself when I knew that my ego was literally going, like, doing the most to get me to not do the thing that I was scared to do, I would give myself no out. So I'm like, you have no option. And whenever people come into my space and they have this pattern and I tell them this, they're like this what? Like, I'm meant to be moving in alignment and I was like, yes, but we can't get to aligned energy until you transmute this, like, fear, right? [00:11:50] Speaker A: What you think is aligned energy is not exactly. [00:11:52] Speaker B: And a lot of the time, what's actually aligned is rooted in fear. And it's like the scary option, the scary decision, because it's like, meant you, like, alignment is meant to push you to becoming more of yourself, to evolving, to literally transmuting shadows. That's what it is. So, yes, I always set this rule, and this is what I did for myself to get over this, like, fear of selling, I was like, you are going to do this every day. I don't care if it's 12:00 a.m. and you haven't posted, you will post something. I don't care if you're sick. I don't care if you have a headache. I'm like, you were doing it. So it's like, I give my ego no option. And then once I did that and I showed up every day and I had to move through that funky ass energy, that resistance. I had to face all those shadow parts of myself that was feeling rejected, not wanted, this was done, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And then all of a sudden, like, the noise just fucking stops. And then all of a sudden, you're just naturally showing up and you're not even thinking about it. You're not even like, should I be showing up? What's like, those things aren't even there because you're like, well, of course I would show up. There's no other way than to show up. [00:12:52] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:12:52] Speaker B: Like, I'm so aligned and connected to what I'm doing. It's like love wants to express itself. [00:12:56] Speaker A: It needs to be shared 100%. 100%. And like, any form of resistance to showing up and, like, expressing your truth, there is a guarantee that there is some distorted energy going on because, like, showing up for yourself and showing up for your business and showing up for your, what you're here to do, for your, you know, even to just share. Sometimes it's like not even sometimes about the business. Sometimes it's not even about the, the clients or anything. It's about you and expressing yourself. Like, when you release all need, attachment, fears, all of it, it's just like this, like, it feels like an ever ending stream of just, like, just excitement and creativity and just flow. That's what it feels like. [00:13:42] Speaker B: Yeah, it does feel like flow. And it's such a fun place to, like, create from and to do business from. [00:13:47] Speaker A: Yeah, 110 f percent. [00:13:49] Speaker B: There was something else I wanted to say in regards to what you said. You were just like, you know, you don't have to actually do, like, you don't have to actually do things based on structure and, like, you know, because it, the thing is, like, there are multiple ways to run a business. Like, there are multiple ways to make sales, to, like, show up, to grow your business and you just want to be really fucking mindful of, like, who you're learning from and like, how, like, who, you know, how you're how you're choosing to go about this and grow it because everything works. Yeah, that's the thing, like, and, yeah. [00:14:21] Speaker A: And like, that's why I love the work that we do, because we are very good at understanding, like, where, where it's coming from, because there is no right or way. It's just like, it, like, it's just if there's distorted energy, there's disordered energy. Because you also have the side where you're like, people need to show up because they're scared to show up. And then there's some people that are like, I need structure, I need planning and all that because they're actually not in trust and they're not in flow, so they need those things too. Like, they think that that's how they operate, but it's like they're scared to let go and trust and not force these things to happen. Right. Because as a result, they end up getting burnt out. Right. [00:14:51] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:14:52] Speaker A: So there's like two sides to it. And that's why I love what we do, because it's not that one is wrong over the other. Like, they, they could be truth. Right. You could, like, thrive in consistency and things like that, but you need to make sure that that is fully coming from a place of, like, no distorted energy there where you can't, like, if, like, I guess the question to ask is if you're someone who likes structure and control, uh, like structure and strategy and all of those things, if you have to, like, let go for a minute or if you have to, like, you know, take some space away from your business, or if you had to just stop forcing creativity for a second and just, like, let it go and trust it comes in. How do you react to those things? So that's why I love what we do, because it really does come from this neutral place in our coaching and what we teach. It's just helping people understand, like, why do you operate the way you do? Why are you doing those things? Why are you having those thoughts? Why are you having those beliefs? Let's have a look. And then you can get to a neutral place of, like, how do I want to operate? How do I want to do it? [00:15:50] Speaker B: Yeah, because it gives you a chance to actually create something that truly, truly, truly fulfills you and, like, uplifts you. [00:15:58] Speaker A: You'll find your alignment from that. Yeah, because it's like, what's in alignment for me is not in alignment for other people. [00:16:04] Speaker B: Absolutely. [00:16:04] Speaker A: How I want to run my business is not the same way other people want to run their business. [00:16:08] Speaker B: Absolutely. And that's, like, been the biggest thing for me. Like, as I lead people in their entrepreneurial journey. Like, for me, it's so important that my client is learning how to understand themselves in that way. [00:16:23] Speaker A: That's all it is, right? It's like this. [00:16:25] Speaker B: Like, I'm never saying, do this, do that, blah, blah, blah. I'm just, like, giving suggestions. But, like, my biggest thing is highlighting the parts of themselves that respond from ego or wounding or are triggered and, like, transmuting that so that they can show up, like, in their truth frequency, which is, like, magnetic as fuck, right? And, like, learn how to actually lead themselves on this journey, because it's like, you don't want to leave a mentor or leave a container and be like, well, what the fuck do I do? I don't know how to leave myself, blah, blah, blah. It's like, honestly, in order for you to grow on this journey, you need to fucking know yourself. You need to be able to trust yourself. Like, entrepreneur. Like, just entrepreneurship in general is the. The most, like, spiritual lessons I've ever learned have been in entrepreneurship, and 100%. 100%. [00:17:18] Speaker A: And you know what's so funny? Like, there's no point even fighting any of that, because in my experience and what I know to be true is, like, there is no way that the universe is going to allow you to continue and give you what you desire and all that when you're not operating in alignment. It just won't work. It will be painful. It will hurt you, and it's just. Right. Sorry, I just have to cough. Yeah. [00:17:39] Speaker B: Sorry. I. [00:17:40] Speaker A: So I think, like, it's. It's just so funny because there's no escaping. Like, you know, for me, I'm supposed to be, um, you know, this period of time in my business anyway. I'm supposed to really. I can't see this changing any other way, but, like, I. The way I meant to show up is, like, I know that I. If I don't show, like, I always check in with the energy, but, like, I meant to show up in this way of, like, I don't sit there calculating what I'm gonna say and how I'm gonna say it, and I just, like, let the, you know, the channeled inspiration, like, come through. It doesn't feel like a controlled space. That's how I'm supposed to show up. So there is no way the universe is going to allow me to build and grow a business that is anything other than that, because that has caused suffering for me. And, like, why the fuck would it want, like, why would it want suffering for me? Like, why would I, like, my higher self, want to create suffering? So that's what I find as well. Like, there's just no escaping, and, like, you can literally manifest some fucked up shit for the universe to be like, yeah, this is how we're doing it. [00:18:37] Speaker B: I've been really good at working against my resistance. I feel like that's been my biggest lesson. I very much have had the mindset on my journey. Sorry, my voice, it's really doing things right now. But I had the mindset for a while. I don't know, it's just so wild to look at my journey. But when I first was, like, led to do this, I had no expectation. I did not know that I was going to be here and doing it. Like, I did not know I was going to end up here. Right. So I just, like, really allowed the energy to just, like, be because I remember it was at the start of 2022. I was like, I don't know what I want to do. I started that readings business, and I was like, okay, I don't actually vibe doing readings. I don't want to do this. I've just built something that I thought was going to work based on what my, like, the community that I was a part of, because I was, like, in that readings community, in that psychic community. And do you think there's any part. [00:19:32] Speaker A: Of you that wanted to do it at that time? [00:19:34] Speaker B: I think there was initially, but then it moved. So it moved to wanting to actually teach, but I was not game to actually do that. Yeah, do that. You know what I mean? So I was fearful, but my fear and my ego was so, like, they were still a big part of me. Like, they were really controlling me because it was definitely an alignment for me to do it. When I first started it, I loved it, but then the energy changed, and then I didn't change with it. I didn't evolve with it. So this is what I mean. [00:20:02] Speaker A: Like, I've just got an inspiration to create a post like that. Just as simple as that. You know what I mean? Like, that's how easy all of this gets to be. And I just had to add that in because I'm like, yeah, no, everything. Yeah, yeah. Usually, like, in the past, it would be like, but does that make sense? And that. And I'm just like, no, no, you don't. Don't worry about it. Like, it just, like, it's like I'm trapped. Like, this is a live reaction to, like, me trusting my channel. Yeah, so, yeah, sorry. [00:20:25] Speaker B: That's honestly like, how it goes. It's just that fucking simple. [00:20:28] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:20:29] Speaker B: So, yeah, with me, it's like, I started showing up like that, and then I basically went into a hiatus, and I was like, I don't know what I want to do. I don't know. Like, I've created something that I want, like that. You know? I kept trying to force something that wasn't working. [00:20:41] Speaker A: It's like you had evolved past that desire to do it. [00:20:44] Speaker B: Yeah. So. And then I didn't let myself change with it, and then I was. Yeah. Went into a hole, and then I was like, I don't know what the fuck to do. I'm gonna completely put my hands in the air, and I'm gonna just listen to my intuition. I'm just gonna fall. I have no expectation. I'm just gonna listen to my intuition. That was the start of 2022, and I let my higher self lead the way. And that, like, year, it led me to YouTube. And then I got really good at YouTube. But through YouTube, I was like, like, literally, my entire YouTube journey to begin with was, like, seeing how much I don't, like, love myself, basically. And I, like, I didn't love myself, I should say, because, like, through that journey, when you're creating YouTube videos, you're looking back at yourself constantly and you're watching yourself, and then you see all of the judgments come up, like, how you speak, how you sound, how you look. So it's just constantly, like, facing those parts of myself. And that journey was actually transmuting that. So a little. Yeah. A part of my ego was like, oh, my God, I'm gonna be a YouTube superstar. But I was just like, no, like, that journey, for me, doing YouTube to begin with was to overcome all of those things. Like, literally. I don't think I've told this story before, but when I was on that YouTube journey, do you know I bought a fucking editing software for $500? [00:21:58] Speaker A: I think you. I think I remember this. I told you that. I think we were speaking about how you're like, well, should I have done that? Shouldn't I? But, like, we didn't speak about, like, why. [00:22:05] Speaker B: Do you know why I did it? The, like, fucking truth as to why I did it? Yeah, why I was giving you. I was spitting some bullshit to you about me, like, wanting to, like, I just really love editing, which I did love editing, but that wasn't the reason. [00:22:18] Speaker A: Yeah. And you made it seem like money was the problem. Like, money was the. [00:22:22] Speaker B: Yeah, I was just created some story about, like, I was scared to buy because it was $500. Yeah, but, like, which was, like, my own, like, money wounds at the time. Yeah, but do you know why I bought it? I bought it because I wanted to airbrush my face. And that was the only, like, platform that could do it. [00:22:37] Speaker A: Wow. YouTube has been the path of least resistance to healing yourself. [00:22:40] Speaker B: Yeah, I'm telling you, like, it's been, like, crazy. But that's why I bought it, because I had, like, so much. [00:22:44] Speaker A: I get it. [00:22:44] Speaker B: Insecurity. [00:22:45] Speaker A: Like, literally, that's something I'm always working on. Insecurity. [00:22:48] Speaker B: Yeah. So I was just like, that was what that path was for. But then it led me to literally creating multidimensional living, which was the first ever program that I made. And literally that, like, I remember within a month, I got the idea to do multidimensional living and never be confused about your sole purpose. Never be confused about your sole purpose. You can still get because it's still good. That's a hot masterclass. So I had that and I'd done that and I'd never, never fucking run a masterclass, never created a program. I didn't know how to fucking launch or sell or anything. Within that first month, I, like, left my, like, I left my job. I did this thing, and it led to, like, a nine K month. And I was just like, what the fuck? It was that easy. And that was purely following alignment, intuition, just following the impulses of energy, no expectation, just like, let me live my life. [00:23:38] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:23:39] Speaker B: And then I got distorted because I was like, now I don't have a job. So that means that this is, like, my, like, the income. And if I want to sustain these, like, nine k months, I've got to make sure that I know what the fuck I'm doing. So then I operated out of, like, from that point forward, from a lens of I need to learn strategy and launching and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And it was fucked. It, like, tainted the magic, it tainted my magnetism, and it led to basically what I'm here to do now, which is help entrepreneurs not fall into that cycle, but yeah, yeah. [00:24:12] Speaker A: And, like, on the, like, the topic of alignment, like, just like, you sharing that journey how, like, you were just following your alignment and it all led you. It just like, isn't it crazy when you do follow your alignment and you look back and go like, wow, I thought this was gonna look this way and I thought this is why I was doing this. And then, like, it's kind of like life had a different purpose for leading you there. Yeah, it's crazy. It never looks like how you think it's gonna be. Or sometimes it might look like how you thought it was gonna be, and, like, it does, like, end up being that, but, like, who you become and what you learnt from that journey isn't what you think it is. [00:24:46] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:24:46] Speaker A: Does that make sense? [00:24:47] Speaker B: Yeah, it does. [00:24:48] Speaker A: It's like, I did not know, like, going on this journey was going to be, like, my business was going to be the path of least resistance in which I dealt with my confidence. Like, for me, I feel like I'm the vessel for my business because it's like, it. Like, my business wants to channel through me, and my growth comes through my business. Like, that's why I believe I'm doing this business. Of course, like, helping people are part of the equation, but also the life is using my business and my commitment to my growth as, like, the vessel. [00:25:16] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:25:17] Speaker A: So for me, I'm just, like, really learning on this journey that, like, you think that life, like, is bringing you your business. Like, you have this desire to do your business because it's, like, for one set outcome, which might be, like, to help other people and things like that, but it's so much more than that. It's so much more than that. I'm like, I just truly believe, like, my business is. Life is using my business to help me heal. I really do. [00:25:41] Speaker B: Absolutely. I think everything in life is just an opportunity to learn more about yourself, to transcend your shadows, to transcend your ego, and to remember who you are, remember who you are. Like, that feeling of, like, wholeness. [00:25:58] Speaker A: And it's so funny because I like, as this journey has evolved, I'm like, wow. Like, the way I used to look at it is like, I'm going through lessons because I'm growing and evolving that my level of consciousness didn't realize. Like, no, I'm going through these experiences just to come back to who I actually am. [00:26:13] Speaker B: Oh, my God. [00:26:14] Speaker A: Yes. [00:26:14] Speaker B: Like, that is so true. [00:26:15] Speaker A: We used to really remember. [00:26:17] Speaker B: Yeah, but we used to look at things like, it's gonna lead to this outcome if I let go. [00:26:20] Speaker A: I'm learning this, and I'm like, the universe is testing me. I'm like, no, it is just showing you who the fuck you are. It's showing you where you put your power outside of yourself. And this is conversations just going with the wind, but, like, it honestly fucking is. [00:26:33] Speaker B: No, it is. It's like, what we're referring to. I don't know if we explained it properly. There but what we're referring to is, you know, that, like, what you see online, you all. You always see people say, I'm being taught this so that I can crack ten k month or fucking 20k month or whatever the fuck. And it's like, no, you're not, babes. [00:26:57] Speaker A: You're just being shown. [00:26:58] Speaker B: You're being shown yourself. [00:27:00] Speaker A: Yeah, you're way. [00:27:01] Speaker B: You give your power away. You. [00:27:02] Speaker A: And the life is not being like, oh, you need to do this so you can get like, this. It is literally just showing you where, like, for an example, where you separate. Yeah. [00:27:13] Speaker B: Like, yeah, where you. [00:27:14] Speaker A: Where you are in separation. [00:27:15] Speaker B: I'm like, yeah. [00:27:16] Speaker A: So, like, the way, like, how this kind of works is like, you know, just say I want to, like, manifest ten k in the month. And all these things happen to me. It's not life testing me. They are a part of my consciousness, and life is just showing me what already exists within me. There isn't a lesson there. There isn't that. It's just that I'm evolving and growing, and this is just a manifestation of where I put power outside of myself. So if I had, like, for example, if I was, like, manifesting ten k, and then all of a sudden, you know, people were reaching out and then they were ghosting me or whatever, like, it's. And I had a reaction to that. Like, that's not happening because life is like, I'm gonna test you. See where you are. It's like these things are manifesting because, well, they're manifesting, and life is showing me what's already within me and, like, showing me, like, just where I put power outside of myself. And this whole journey is coming back to a remembrance of who the fuck I am. [00:28:12] Speaker B: Literally. Couldn't have said it better myself, doll. It's like the most wild, like, wildest thing. [00:28:19] Speaker A: It's just like, it's just literally, everything is just a mirror for what's internally within you. [00:28:23] Speaker B: Absolutely. [00:28:25] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:28:25] Speaker B: And it's just funny how we, like, cling on to these, like, external, outside things to be like, you know, I'm learning this to transcend this so I can get this, and it's like, it just doesn't even make fucking sense. It's like this whole journey is just you remembering who you are, remembering who you are, coming back home to yourself, and literally just transcending separation. Yeah, literally. [00:28:51] Speaker A: This conversation's gone so deep, but I love it. [00:28:53] Speaker B: I know. I'm like, where have we ended up? This is literally an insight into our conversation. This is how we fucking work. Yeah. We're on a completely end of the fucking spectrum, honestly. [00:29:02] Speaker A: Like, because I guess this all ties in with alignment and things like that, because it's like it still comes back down to this whole one, like, thing. And it's like this whole journey is remembering who the fuck you are. [00:29:13] Speaker B: And like, life is changing from that place. Literally. [00:29:16] Speaker A: Life is just. Yeah. And operating from that place. Yeah. [00:29:19] Speaker B: Being brave enough to be that version of you, to just literally operate in that wholeness. [00:29:24] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:29:24] Speaker B: Constantly. [00:29:24] Speaker A: I don't think there's ever been a time within myself or whenever I've taught someone or ever, where the issue hasn't been placing power outside of themselves. [00:29:31] Speaker B: It's literally the thing. Every single time. [00:29:34] Speaker A: It's the only thing. [00:29:35] Speaker B: That's the only thing. [00:29:36] Speaker A: Like, the scarcity wounds. All of it is like putting something outside of yourself. Like, it's all linked back to that, isn't it? [00:29:44] Speaker B: There is nothing else. [00:29:45] Speaker A: There's nothing else. [00:29:46] Speaker B: That is the thing. It's like literally giving power to that thing, to that outcome, thinking that that thing is going to make you feel whole and complete and safe and secure. And you just can't live a powerful life like that. No, you can't. Because it's like as soon as the outside structure crumbles, you crumble. [00:30:05] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:30:06] Speaker B: When you do that, right. It's like as soon as something like dips or it doesn't look like the way, you know, sales aren't coming in, somebody says something to you in a funny way, it's like you crumble, you crumble. The entire structure is like, like down to the ground. This is why people have like, ego deaths every twelve months, every twelve months, every month, every three months, literally. [00:30:25] Speaker A: Because they're showing who they really are. Yeah, well, who they're, who they've lost themselves to be. [00:30:29] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:30:30] Speaker A: This whole fucking journey, I feel like we've just been put on this planet and like, those who wake up, it's just like we're gonna go and remember who the fuck you are. Yeah, legit. [00:30:39] Speaker B: It's just funny, like, when we first started this, we were like, we want to make sure that, like, you know, we're gonna get ten k months and we're gonna do this and we're gonna do that. [00:30:46] Speaker A: And it was more just like our life is showing me a lesson and like, I'm. This is like my, like, no, babe, this is, this is, this just is always there. [00:30:56] Speaker B: It's like always been. [00:30:57] Speaker A: It was manifesting in a different way three months ago. It was manifesting when. Before you had this journey. It was manifesting always. [00:31:04] Speaker B: No, I'm actually like, it's so important that you just mention that, because that's the thing. Like, this thing, like, when you haven't actually dealt with something, it's just gonna keep coming up, and it's gonna come up in all of these different scenarios. [00:31:18] Speaker A: It's always been coming up. That's what people don't realize. [00:31:20] Speaker B: Yeah, that's what I mean. Like, it's always been coming up. It's just, like, copy and paste onto a new situation until you actually fucking deal with it and it stops playing out in your life. [00:31:29] Speaker A: Yeah, literally, 100%. Because I'm like. And it's so funny. Like, I really did enter this journey being like, all these crazy things are happening, and I was getting so overwhelmed, and I'm like, wow, this. This situation happened in my corporate job. This situation happened probably last week. This situation happened x, y, and z. [00:31:49] Speaker B: And I'm here thinking, like, in your relationship, in my relate. [00:31:52] Speaker A: It's showing up everywhere. And I'm just like, life is, like, showing me this one particular lesson or throwing this thing at me, and I'm just like, fuck, babe. [00:32:00] Speaker B: No, it hasn't. [00:32:01] Speaker A: It has not. [00:32:01] Speaker B: You know what I've noticed about life, though? Like, about, like, how it works. Like, how the universe reflects things to you. I don't know if you've picked up on this, but it. It does so in, like, subtle ways. So, to begin with, you might, like, get, like, a slight little, like, oh, that that caused a little bit of a feeling within me, right? It's like, a slight activation, and it's like, maybe it's a thought, and it's easy to ignore. And usually at that point, lots of people ignore it. They're just like, I'm not gonna deal with that. I'm not gonna say that. I'm not gonna like that. It's easy to be like, no, I'm not gonna let that ruin me. Might, like, ruin my vibe, and I'm gonna just focus on this. So it's like, they repress it, right? It's not a letting go. It's a repression when you do that. And they repress it, and then what happens is it comes up again, and it's a little bit stronger, and it's like, knocking at the door, and it's like, hey. And then you're like, no, no, no. I'm like, not gonna let that ruin my vibe again. And then you're having a conversation with someone, they say something that triggers this wound, and then it comes up even stronger. You're like, yeah, why is this in here? [00:32:54] Speaker A: Right? [00:32:54] Speaker B: And then it's like, you keep repressing it. It's like, at each point is. What I'm trying to say is you have an opportunity to see it and to transcend it and to transmute it so it doesn't come up again. Because when you repress something, when you aren't paying attention to it, it's just going to keep coming up to be seen. And the more and more you don't see it, you're holding onto it, you're feeding it with energy in your subconscious, and it's building in energy and intensity, and it's going to come up and come up, come up, and it's going to, like, continue knocking on that fucking door until it. It's allowed to be transmuted and expressed and released. Right. So what I've noticed is lots of people will, like, basically not pay attention until they have no choice but to pay attention. Right. It's like. And either this no choice, it's either manifested, like, as so much internal resistance that you're just like, holy shit. Comes up with a vengeance. [00:33:42] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:33:43] Speaker B: Or it's, like, actually something that manifests in your physical that, like, causes, like, it gives you no choice but to listen. [00:33:49] Speaker A: Yeah, right, 100%. [00:33:51] Speaker B: It's so funny to say because I'm just like, I've noticed that it actually comes up really, like, in, like, a really, like, easy way, almost. Like, if you just dealt with it, then it wouldn't have been this, like, big fucking thing. [00:34:02] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:34:02] Speaker B: Do you know what I mean? [00:34:03] Speaker A: Yeah, 100%. [00:34:04] Speaker B: Yeah. I've experienced that so many times. I'm just like, it's so funny to see how if you actually are paying attention and you're, like, committed to, like, consciously living and you just pay attention to, like, the internal little, like, triggers that come up and you're just like, oh. And you, like, care about what's going on in here. You can, like, really save yourself. [00:34:21] Speaker A: Yeah, you can save yourself. A lot of. [00:34:25] Speaker B: I've, like, have clients, when I talk to them about it, they're like, fuck, it's actually so much easier to deal with. When it's at that level. [00:34:30] Speaker A: Yeah. When it's at that level. [00:34:31] Speaker B: Rather than, like, letting it build to this big thing. [00:34:34] Speaker A: Yeah. And, like, it's just crazy. It's just this whole fucking journey, just, like, what life will do to get. [00:34:42] Speaker B: You to wake up, honestly. [00:34:44] Speaker A: Funny. [00:34:45] Speaker B: Just to show you, like, yeah, deeper parts of yourself. [00:34:48] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:34:49] Speaker B: It's like. And it's such a liberating place to live from. Like, when you actually start to transcend your ego and you start to transcend this, like, lower part of you that's like feeding you all these stories that aren't true, that's like keeping you back, that's holding you back, that's keeping you in those lower frequencies. It just feels like a. It feels liberating. [00:35:09] Speaker A: It feels liberating. [00:35:11] Speaker B: And it feels like you. You don't feel scared to navigate life. You don't feel like you have to protect yourself because it's like you're willing to see these, like, darker parts of yourself, the shadow parts of yourself that it keeping you from living in alignment. It's like you're not moving from a place of, like, I need to protect myself and I need to set boundaries with the world. It's like, no, it's like this deeper. Just trust with self. And it's like I trust everything that comes up, I trust everything that I see. And I know it's all an opportunity for me to be more of myself, to come back home to myself. [00:35:39] Speaker A: Yeah, 100%. I've had it. [00:35:41] Speaker B: Like, it just. [00:35:42] Speaker A: Yeah, I lost what I was gonna say. [00:35:44] Speaker B: What? [00:35:44] Speaker A: No, I don't know. I was like, do. I wanted to give an example. But we've given so many. [00:35:48] Speaker B: You could give an example. [00:35:50] Speaker A: No, I've lost it. [00:35:51] Speaker B: Oh, you've lost. [00:35:52] Speaker A: Yeah, I was. Lost it. [00:35:53] Speaker B: Well, yeah. Do you want to share anything else? Is there anything else coming through for you? [00:35:56] Speaker A: I don't know. I feel like that's, like, pretty much it. Like, I feel like this whole conversation just led to so, so much deepness, but, like, it all really comes back to this alignment. Because, like, your alignment is. [00:36:07] Speaker B: That's how you find alignment. [00:36:08] Speaker A: That's how you find alignment. [00:36:09] Speaker B: Transcending all that dumb shit, the shadowy shit. Not sitting there. Yeah, yeah, 100%. Sorry, I interrupted you. Go ahead. [00:36:17] Speaker A: No, no, no. [00:36:18] Speaker B: That's literally it. [00:36:19] Speaker A: But yeah, that's, I feel, like, whole and complete with what we've said. [00:36:22] Speaker B: Great, so do I. Well, it's been very fun having a chat with you and thank you for joining and listening. We really appreciate it. Yeah, we would love to hear from you as well. If you have anything to add on this conversation. If you have anything to share, any takeaways, then please let us know. Dm us on YouTube, you can comment in the section below and we can have a chat in there. So we would love to hear from you. 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